The following documentation is adapted from the Wanderhaus Guidebook. However, there are some key differences, which are italicized.
Getting to Dovetail Manor
Need the Address?
Please reach out to the Host of the event you’re attending.
Important: for the safety of our community, never post the address to any faerie house on social media, in a group chat room, or any other public space.
Arriving
Ring 1218 -3
If no one answers, try again.
Please, call, don’t text. Event hosts do not regularly check their phones, so it’s easier to get their attention if you call them.
Walk up three flights of stairs to the top floor. Door on the right.
Important Visitor Guidelines
Important: all visitors should be familiar with these guidelines before arrival.
Bedrooms are Private & Off-Limits
Please stay out of all bedrooms, unless explicitly invited by a resident.
The Main Bedroom is available for use
The healing room, which is the bedroom with an ensuite bathroom, is generally available as a sex-positive space.
No Smoking or Vaping Indoors
Smoking and vaping is permitted on the back porch (access available via the kitchen door). However, the next-door neighbors are sensitive to smoke, so please do not smoke if they are present. With explicit verbal permission of both residents, you may smoke or vape indoors.
Clothing Optional
We’re a clothing optional space. Always sit on a towel / cloth if exposed. A cloth will be provided upon request.
Always Place Food & Drinks on a Table
Yes, always – even when lounging on the floor mats.
Liability & Admission
These are private events. The host of any event, or the residents, reserve the right to turn anyone away. The host & residents do not assume responsibility for personal injury, or property damage, or property loss.
Additional Visitor Notes
Available Amenities
- The WiFi network is – vivaciousvivarium1 – and the password is – shrimpdaddy
- In the main bathroom:
- Small washcloths on the shelves above the toilet are for personal use (bidet)
- Small towels atop the radiator are available for personal use (showers)
- In the Zen room: towels hanging up are for cleaning up oil, lube, and body fluids
- Feel free to choose any cup in the built-in hutch for personal use. The variety of shapes helps distinguish the glass you chose.
- Ice is available in the freezer. Please wash your hands before serving yourself ice.
- Feel free to use the tea station in the kitchen to make yourself tea and coffee. Please be sure to clean up after yourself. A separate water boiler is available for making a large batch of tea.
Nearby Transit & Parking
The Morse CTA Red Line stop is one block away, and available 24 hours a day. Several buses run nearby, and are available during the day. Check the CTA website, or Google Maps, for additional information & transit schedules. Our street, and those near us, can have limited parking. However, there is a pay-to-park lot east of Sheridan.
Open Flames
Candles may be used in the fireplace only. Please ask a resident for help
THC Food & Beverages
All food / beverages for others, which contains THC, must be clearly marked.
Haus of Peace
Violence, threats of violence, bullying, guns (all kinds), knives, and other weapons are not allowed. All weapons must be disclosed and relinquished at the door. They will be returned to you upon your departure. Exception: ritual items which could be used as weapons are allowed, but must be peace-tied before arrival, and remain tied throughout the duration of your visit.
Lost & Found Items
Unclaimed Lost & Found items are donated to the Cat Boutique (*local Rad Fae clothing & item giveaway at Wanderhaus) at every potluck. Contact a resident if you need an item held for pickup. We are not responsible for any property left in the Lost & Found.
Dolly Cart’n aka Cart-e ‘D’ fashion boutique
Please respect Dolly and all the clothing items on her. She wants to help you feel good and lend you her clothing. But please return all items borrowed from her. Dovetail Manor does not have a free clothing boutique. If you are looking for gently used items to take home, check out the Cat Boutique at WanderHaus or the Backdoor Boutique at Rogue House.
Child Supervision
During ‘all-ages’ events, minors must be accompanied at all times.
COVID Policy
COVID vaccination encouraged, masks optional. Multi-day events may require proof (photo) of a negative COVID test no older than 3 days. Stay home if you feel sick, and let us know if you develop symptoms or test positive for COVID. Your honesty helps us keep everyone safe.
Overnight Guest Information
Orientation & details for overnight guests staying at Dovetail Manor.
Interested in being an overnight guest at Dovetail Manor? Reach out to both Yuvi and Patches on signal.
@mother_damndst.26
@Buttons.08
Overnight Guest Details
Although modeled after the guide for overnight guests published by WanderHaus, Dovetail Manor has more limited resources to accommodate guests. Please read this section carefully for most of it is significantly different from the guide published by WanderHaus.
Dovetail Manor does not have a guest room. However, accommodations can be easily made for one or two nights. There are two options for hosting your visit:
- Sleeping in the Zen room – This room is used for working with clients. Anyone staying here must pack up their things and help prepare the space (including attached bathroom) by 9 am.
- Sleeping in the vivarium, on the couch–Because this is a shared space, understand that you will not be guaranteed privacy. Also, grow lights turn on automatically at sunrise. Please reach out to your resident-on-call for instruction on how to turn them off.
- A third option may be available for returning guests.
Keep the Space Tidy
Dovetail Manor has limited space. Also, Yuvi is highly sensitive to clutter. Please keep all your things together. Your resident-on-call will assign you a place to keep all your things. Exceptions include: footwear on the hallway shoe rack; coat hanging in the closet; food stowed in the kitchen.
Your Guest Key
Your resident-on-call will give you a Guest Key upon your arrival.
Loss of keys will prompt a request of $25 for replacement
Resident-on-Call
All guests are assigned a resident-on-call. Your resident-on-call is responsible for your stay, and will be your first point of contact for any needs you may have. Always approach the resident-on-call with any questions or needs, before consulting other residents.
If your resident-on-call is unavailable, or you require immediate assistance, please reach out to any / all of the residents (In the event of an emergency, please dial 911).
If You’d Like to Give Back
If you’re staying with us and have the means, one wonderful way to show appreciation is by sharing a meal with your hosts. This could mean cooking something here, ordering delivery, or treating residents to a local restaurant. It’s a gesture that’s always appreciated, but never expected.
Allowed Visitors
With permission from the resident-on-call, Overnight Guests may have a visitor. You must accompany your visitor at all times. Visits should be limited to two hours, exceptions considered. Want your visitor to stay overnight? Check with your resident-on-call for approval.
Food
Most of the food at Dovetail Manor is considered communal, with the exception of the ceremonial cacao. Communal meals are important for us to connect with each other in the space. You can expect oatmeal, 2 eggs, and coffee for breakfast. Please check-in with us about meal-prep.
Similar to the expectations at the Faerie Sanctuarys: a request of $30 per day for food is recommended ($10 per meal). Please only give if you are able.
If you are eating out, we do not expect you to contribute to food.
If you are purchasing groceries for the house, expect to subtract that which you spend from the requested amount.
We will not be tallying up a total for your visit. We ask that you keep track for yourself. We will also not ask for money for food. Please offer the money as a gift upon the completion of your stay.
The household is mostly pescetarian and dairy-free. If you bring in any meat or dairy, please label the food. Also, Please label any food that you wish to reserve for yourself. Any food that is not labeled is considered communal.
Lights
Most of the lights are controlled with remotes or from the Wiz v2 app.
General Visitor Guidelines
Overnight Guests are also expected to be familiar with the General Visitor Information (above).
Client Work
Performing in-person client work for money? Please contact Mother Damndst about renting the brothel
Long-Term Guest Expectations
Long-Term stay is only available to guests who have already had a short-term stay. Please understand, most requests for long-term stay cannot be granted. Dovetail Manor has limited resources for guests, especially because the residents see clients at the residence.
We request Overnight Guests staying 3 nights (or more) to complete one chore each day, from the Dovetail Manor Cleaning Guide. Thank you!
Maximum Length of Stay
To maintain a sustainable, nurturing, and compassionate environment for the residents, we encourage the following:
Recommended maximum length for a single visit: 3 consecutive days (2 nights)
7-Step Check-Out Process
Guests must check-out with the resident-on-call before departure. If the resident-on-call is unavailable, check-out with another resident.
- Gather all used laundry. This includes the sheets, pillowcases, towels, and washrags. Place laundry in the work-room closet hamper.
- Clean the main bathroom. Vinegar spray and cleaning rags are in the pantry.
- Clean dirty dishes, and dispose of trash & recycling. Place all used dishes in the dishwasher. If the dishwasher is full, notify the resident-on-call and please wash the dishes by hand.
- Sweep the Guest Bedroom and bathroom. The broom & dustpan can be found in the coat closet.
- Double-check the residence for any personal items or trash / recycling.
- Collect your food from the kitchen cabinets, fridge, or freezer.
- Verify your check-out with your resident-on-call.